rejection of diagnoses
Mar. 24th, 2024 09:58 amjust , from another discussion think about this again , and .
really kossai do socially reject diagnoses of brain . legally there is still some use but ugh , fucking ... hate that even need to .
anyway . one big part is that , of course , faeries . faeries do not really define these things - kossai for example only have 3 major words that use to describe , for overall mental state rather than any particular traits .
for one thing , why would faeries have need of define autism when that is more comparable to natural faerie state ? but also , this idea of box up traits into neat labels is ... not very faerie at all ! faeries defy this very idea , this very plan - life is ever fluid and that is something to embrace .
and also ... like . kossai is not , was never , and never can be , palatable to typical social standards , to standards of good autistic .
people ready to throw under from day one , and that absolutely include so call fellow autistic people . what often happen is these people assume that understand how brain work , understand how think , understand what give problems in life - and use that to smear , attack , mock , harass .
because , well , kossai is just on purpose ignore these standards ! kossai is complain over things that could fix if just try harder ! kossai is complain and whine about nothing at all because selfish little asshole !
yeah . not have much positive feeling about identify with autism when people did not treat any less awful , even those people who should be able trust .
so no . kossai is just faeries . there is no other words that socially need to understand , because would not understand even if say all those words . all really need is to know faeries think different , and kossai try to be kind within what is possible .