kossai | public kink thoughts

still sort of sad because some time ago buy merch things from queer artist that really like , and still have those things because like actually useful things too , but ... later this artist go on rants about how kink is so gross and anything even possibly kinky do not deserve public spaces , which is like . not only impossible to control because of how anything can be kink , and some " kink things " can also be not kinky for individuals , but also just hair too close to general anti-queer arguments .
which really sucks … remember see people try to explain , but would just double down and get even angrier , so end up unfollow . just wish could be , nicer .

and know sort of where come from , was teenager on tumblr so know very well how people would post porn anywhere , and just how many people would not respect clear boundaries .

remember especially how many cute pink style of blogs would have to say again and again and again that did not want ddlg comments on photos and artwork - and so many still would disrespect , even steal work just to add on comments , make edits , and bypass creator's ability to block .
like understand when that is behaviour which know from kinky communities , can become defensive . but not mean right to say , oh , should never do anything in public - digital or physical public - that could in any way reflect on kinks .

like think people should be mindful of not pop boners and use everyday public places to make out - not that kossai care too much , but other people and laws unfortunately do - but , whatever otherwise . if pup mask give euphoria in non-kinky way then not see reason why " kink object " should stop , and likewise , if indulge in parts of kink help to relieve dysphoria ... is that worth hurt over ?