discord is bad for kossai because honestly struggle in both groups and in real time talk . even comments like this hard , but at least will not get completely drown out by other messages if spend some time to think on answer !
in terms of unreality , kossai have opposite thing where really hate attempts to define anyone's personal experiences as unreality - something which is pretty sensitive for kossai as grow up pagan - and know that many other folks also genuinely can not delineate like this . unfortunately still feel like most folks view this as just emotional stubbornness , and not that double bookkeep is equally unreality trigger for some folks .
hard sometimes not to get pretty defensive about this , because there is this attitude that to hurt folks who can not double bookkeep ( and attempt to enforce double bookkeep ) is " better " solution , which is just bull - this is genuine conflict of needs , and spaces need to exist for both , because both have equally real and important feelings and needs . forum was nice because everyone understand this is not that kind of place , and would not accept those behaviours - no one is acceptable to hurt , not even for another's sake . breath of fresh air that is now just whisk away into abyss .
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Date: Jun. 16th, 2025 03:59 pm (UTC)in terms of unreality , kossai have opposite thing where really hate attempts to define anyone's personal experiences as unreality - something which is pretty sensitive for kossai as grow up pagan - and know that many other folks also genuinely can not delineate like this . unfortunately still feel like most folks view this as just emotional stubbornness , and not that double bookkeep is equally unreality trigger for some folks .
hard sometimes not to get pretty defensive about this , because there is this attitude that to hurt folks who can not double bookkeep ( and attempt to enforce double bookkeep ) is " better " solution , which is just bull - this is genuine conflict of needs , and spaces need to exist for both , because both have equally real and important feelings and needs . forum was nice because everyone understand this is not that kind of place , and would not accept those behaviours - no one is acceptable to hurt , not even for another's sake . breath of fresh air that is now just whisk away into abyss .