Mate: Discord is just so overstimulating and so much harder to walk away from. You can't just take a few hours to respond like you can with forums.

That is totally fair with unreality! To be honest I'm not too sure how to describe it, I'd rather not say triggering per say? I really have no idea how to describe it, but I do get it. I could always just go metaphorical and say it feels fuzzy.

It's a bit confusing for us too because we fit in both camps. We do have physically nonhuman headmates, but being a system, our experiences wind up being a little too complicated and different headmates react very differently. We still respect others experiences either way, and it's more just wish there was a community in general that both takes into account varying mental illness while not watering it down, which a forum would be perfect for since you can check the topic title and dip out as needed