little ramble
Apr. 30th, 2026 11:33 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
kossaino matter what anyone might want to ask or say , will always be physically faerie , this is just truth of selves . body is also undeniably mixed in sex characteristics . sometimes feel intersex identity is in sort of weird spot , as faeries would not necessarily categorise sex , or have standards of what is perisex and intersex , and therefore would like to not label as well .
even so , of course among humans , kossai exist in societies that do have these categories and standards - and sometimes so misinformed or blatantly cruel that there is nothing to do but to speak up and reveal . think everyone would benefit if none of these categories and standards could exist - if could speak plainly about possibilities of how bodies may look and act beyond two strict boxes , if everyone could access choices of hormones and surgeries without hurdles , and if no one was shaved down and torn apart to fit those boxes . maybe words like transgender and intersex would no longer be necessary beyond analysis of history . maybe that would be worth freedom .
anyway , people say fucking weird and invasive shit even before publicly out as intersex , so not as if hide protect in any way . would like to be in world where category is not necessary , but people will demand one , so intersex is answer . want to get nitty gritty , further into arbitrary binaries ? too bad , make some shit up ! would never want to hear truth anyway .
even so , of course among humans , kossai exist in societies that do have these categories and standards - and sometimes so misinformed or blatantly cruel that there is nothing to do but to speak up and reveal . think everyone would benefit if none of these categories and standards could exist - if could speak plainly about possibilities of how bodies may look and act beyond two strict boxes , if everyone could access choices of hormones and surgeries without hurdles , and if no one was shaved down and torn apart to fit those boxes . maybe words like transgender and intersex would no longer be necessary beyond analysis of history . maybe that would be worth freedom .
anyway , people say fucking weird and invasive shit even before publicly out as intersex , so not as if hide protect in any way . would like to be in world where category is not necessary , but people will demand one , so intersex is answer . want to get nitty gritty , further into arbitrary binaries ? too bad , make some shit up ! would never want to hear truth anyway .
