late crosspost - answer to post on tumblr about how older faerie folk adopt words and concepts from 1995 TTRPG changeling the dreaming , and really feel sting of banality and loss of glamour these days , quote : "[...]
anyway, im still a wilder but i feel like i got burntout wayyy too young, and im getting older. banality got me young, it still has me now. horrible horrible"
ha , by CTD rules kossai is grump . normally would object to 25+ as somehow old , but in terms of CTD universe , changelings tend to burn out of glamour by mid-life ... so , sort of make sense - not death of whole body , but death of faerie side .
kossai have no plans to let that happen , that is for sure ! but human performances and banalities of life among humans do utterly tire out . not always able to control for these , but can look to strategies - big and small - to try and reintroduce some of those dreams and glamour .
( side note : kossai do not really subscribe to CTD dream theory for general faerie existence and glamour , but still think very useful to indulge , as faeriehood do not exist in strict boxes , and faerie experiences can be anything . good to know how to put aside need for true answers , definite consistent logic in experiences , and so on . )
little things can include just simple shifts in mindset . why should only some sounds get to be songs ? should beginner violinist really have to endure shame of label as senseless noise , while peers get to be hopeful musicians ? why do birds sing and deserve audience for song , but coffee machine do not ? both can be just as much part of morning routine - and both work hard , even if bird and coffee machine would not understand each other .
this can also include aesthetic choices , to make utterly banal objects more fanciful or funny . mileage will vary on this one , not always able to control ( while still maintain function , anyway ) but say for example , scissors . scissors can come with all sorts of patterns on handles - and embroidery scissors can have beautiful casts , like animals or flowers . some staplers out there come in funny little animal shapes , cover with rhinestones , and honestly , can never go wrong with googly eyes .
bigger changes ... kossai do not know depths of situation , so that can be harder to answer for . but as always say , even little changes can add up and go pretty far . kossai approach objects from animistic view , absolutely , but think anyone could benefit from slow down and appreciate these objects , and to shift mind from noises and annoyances to songs , dances , and hard work . whether or not feel spirit to be within object , still true that objects need care and maintenance , that these mechanisms take physical effort to work , and that there is long history of people - dreamers , in CTD sense - who lead up to these objects , even if that history is lost .